Trainer and get your child quiet to dare to speak out. Beyond the disruption of development of language skills, children are generally reticent influenced factors are unfamiliar or expressive of his nature. Even so, keep there needs to be action from parents because the children have to learn to express your thoughts/feelings.
To that end, provide a special time just the two of us together. Do interchangeably with couples. Both just mean no other siblings (older brother/sister). Why? So that the children could freely express themselves and be herself. Make this ' dating ' schedule on a regular basis, i.e. enough 10-15 minutes each time. You can play, relax, chat etc. Avoid too many questions about the school because it could make the child feel uncomfortable, just give the standard answer, and do not enjoy special time it is.
So, start with yourself, i.e. Your/spouse began telling about everyday life or anything that is light and pleasant to talk about with the kids. For example, the incident this morning at the Office or the streets. Continue to do this until finally the children feel comfortable and begin to open up. Indeed it takes patience from parents to get through it.
However, when the child is already comfortable talking, keep the attitude. Stay calm and unhurried advise/cornered the child. Give children a chance to tell stories. Also, you can accustom the child to expressed his opinion about a variety of things. For example, set up a small meeting to determine vacation destination. When the child expresses his opinion, listen to and respect his opinion. Avoid blaming the child's top opinion cornered/choices.
If the children are already in school, working with the teacher. Teachers can help encourage children to be more brave talk in class and give appreciation of what could make him be more confident to talk. If you are having difficulty and the child's condition showed no progress after all the efforts made, consult with a child psychologist in order to found a proper handling.
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